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Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
I judge everybody.
You know someone and if you think good of them that is a judgement same as you know them and something not so good is a judgement. Many judgements are accurate some are not. I do not get to know each person I meet but I make little judgements from how they look, speak, act etc
It is like a job interview we don't arrive in dirty sweatpants and a ripped t shirt no shoes etc and expect them to just hire us to see if we will be professional. We dress up so hopefully they see and judge we take this opportunity seriously. We don't all look, act and talk how we 'should' all the time. I sometimes head to the grocery store with hair in a balled mess and I am sure anyone that glanced my way might think I was just lazy. I know that. But most of the time the little judgements we make about random people we forget seconds after they are made, because we all have a lot more stuff going on then whatever that stranger is about in a moment. We also can't always trust the judgements we make of people who 'act' right. I know someone who to the outside world is good looking funny, charming. But he is sick, very sick, and he is two different people. We just make the best judgments we can at the time with the information provided. It is good to remember though that each person we see has their own story, past, and problems we know nothing of. Being harsh usually is not warranted.
You know someone and if you think good of them that is a judgement same as you know them and something not so good is a judgement. Many judgements are accurate some are not. I do not get to know each person I meet but I make little judgements from how they look, speak, act etc
It is like a job interview we don't arrive in dirty sweatpants and a ripped t shirt no shoes etc and expect them to just hire us to see if we will be professional. We dress up so hopefully they see and judge we take this opportunity seriously. We don't all look, act and talk how we 'should' all the time. I sometimes head to the grocery store with hair in a balled mess and I am sure anyone that glanced my way might think I was just lazy. I know that. But most of the time the little judgements we make about random people we forget seconds after they are made, because we all have a lot more stuff going on then whatever that stranger is about in a moment. We also can't always trust the judgements we make of people who 'act' right. I know someone who to the outside world is good looking funny, charming. But he is sick, very sick, and he is two different people. We just make the best judgments we can at the time with the information provided. It is good to remember though that each person we see has their own story, past, and problems we know nothing of. Being harsh usually is not warranted.
