can you ever love too much.

@ShadowedWhispers what do you mean by love confused

It's become something more then love (i.e. obsession) if it's too much. @SW-User

@ShadowedWhispers so obsession is confused love

One form of it. Yeah. @SW-User

Love should be freeing. If it's not, then it's become something else. @SW-User

So obsession. Is confining?

Obsession - "an idea or thought that continually preoccupies or intrudes on a person's mind." So it's at least confining to the person obsessed and if they are controlling, then it's confining to both people. @SW-User

so its only obsession if its controlling.

No. There was an if in my reply. @SW-User