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How do you tell someone with a disability that you don't want to be friends with them?

It's not because he has a disability. I never even got to know him. All of a sudden he was all buddy buddy with me and I was majorly creeped. Then someone told me he had a disability. I tried to be friends with him but we just don't click and I never have any fun with him, which is sad because I need more friends. He even tried to make me jealous about his girlfriend once.

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Depending on the disability, you'll probably never have any fun with him. I work with a dude with down syndrome and he's a nice guy and all, but he gets super annoying at times. You just gotta work with that, because they don't really have the luxury of just going somewhere else and finding a new friend.

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

You're right... everyone knows he has a disability and I don't think he has many friends because of it. @SW-User

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@xRockGlossPrincessx :) He appreciates it.

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xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

Hmm maybe you're right. @GreggsCustomerService

CaptainCanadia · 41-45, M

Sliding away is the kindest thing to do. If he pushes it then you have to find the nicest way to say that his behaviour has been a problem for you and you can't handle it.

There is no way to do this without hurting is feelings. Imagine yo're him - how would you want the other person to act?

Shaman · 26-30

Lol, it's a hard situation

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

Yes... @Shaman

bijouxbroussard · F

The disability should be a non-issue. You would treat him the way you would someone not disabled. If you have to address it rather than just making yourself scarce, say you "don't really have anything in common". That's the truth.

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

you dont, you just kind of slide away

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@MartinTheFirst I'm trying but I feel so bad 😔

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