Are you aware of what you say when you're saying it?

Not always. Sometimes you operate in autopilot mode and though conscious do not always think through our words in detail as they're being said. That's why a few of us can get into trouble without meaning to..

Sometimes. Sometimes I just say the first thing that comes to mind, it just slips past my lips and I don't realize what I've said until I see how mortified the person is.

So you're expecting me to do all the talking AND the listening?