Let me make this very clear. When I tell your "buddy" is a ped, it is not because you're entitled to me informing you.
It is not my job to investigate those you surrounded yourself with, it is yours. And if you truly cared, you would have put on the work and done it yourself to begin with. You would also REMEMBER.
Forgetting or not investigating is part of showing me you don't care enough.
It is not my job to tell you. That's a choice I make for myself not for you , so I can later form a conclusion about you specifically being in my space. Your actions define you to me. I don't care about your feelings and motivations. I care about what you do.
It seems to me that a lot of people have grown to think I owe them the ethical work they should be doing themselves. I used to pour so much of myself into keeping this place cleaner and often met with ingratitude and a-holary from many fronts. I owe myself not giving opportunities to shitheads pretending to care. 🙆🏻
Forgetting or not investigating is part of showing me you don't care enough.
It is not my job to tell you. That's a choice I make for myself not for you , so I can later form a conclusion about you specifically being in my space. Your actions define you to me. I don't care about your feelings and motivations. I care about what you do.
It seems to me that a lot of people have grown to think I owe them the ethical work they should be doing themselves. I used to pour so much of myself into keeping this place cleaner and often met with ingratitude and a-holary from many fronts. I owe myself not giving opportunities to shitheads pretending to care. 🙆🏻
