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*When it comes to love, to allow this depth of online connection, you must be ready for risk - ready to let that person go at any moment.
Today, maybe you touched the deepest parts of your souls, tomorrow, someone else might propose to them.
Or their family might arrange their marriage suddenly (depending on the culture). Be careful with love, you might get lied to or be subject of some kind of love scam. Always meet in person, if you can't meet in person, this love is probably doomed.
***I don't want to bring anyone's love down (if you are going through such experience), but I feel that I should leave this here, in case someone is going broke paying the bills of someone living their best life in another country, romanticizing who knows how many other people into paying their life expenses and interests. Be real, but also, bring your brain with your heart 💗
Today, maybe you touched the deepest parts of your souls, tomorrow, someone else might propose to them.
Or their family might arrange their marriage suddenly (depending on the culture). Be careful with love, you might get lied to or be subject of some kind of love scam. Always meet in person, if you can't meet in person, this love is probably doomed.
***I don't want to bring anyone's love down (if you are going through such experience), but I feel that I should leave this here, in case someone is going broke paying the bills of someone living their best life in another country, romanticizing who knows how many other people into paying their life expenses and interests. Be real, but also, bring your brain with your heart 💗
Hougal · 31-35, M
@Busybee333 Thanks you very much for your precious 💞 advices... It's a gem 💎
in10RjFox · M
Online relationships are the strongest, as messaging results in soul connection with hours of exchanging thoughts undisturbed.
Whereas in conventional meetings we tend to get more physical resulting in less bonding of souls.
All my online relationships are strong though we part ways for varied reasons.
Whereas in conventional meetings we tend to get more physical resulting in less bonding of souls.
All my online relationships are strong though we part ways for varied reasons.
Busybee333 · 31-35, F
Yes, it can be one of the deepest bonds (it is easier to open up on the keyboard).
The emotional connection can be phenomenal.
The great reflections involved in that kind of deep communication are priceless.
It can be enriching, inspiring, and beautiful.
However, remember that you only know part of the person.
If your emotions grow deep and if you'd like to know more about that person, you must meet face to face.
Internet is a very vast network, some people may not be who you think.
The first time you meet someone from the net, you might want to be in a public place.
Maybe have an escape buddy, in case things don't go as planned.
Conclusion: yes, you may connect strongly online, but always with a grain of salt :)
The emotional connection can be phenomenal.
The great reflections involved in that kind of deep communication are priceless.
It can be enriching, inspiring, and beautiful.
However, remember that you only know part of the person.
If your emotions grow deep and if you'd like to know more about that person, you must meet face to face.
Internet is a very vast network, some people may not be who you think.
The first time you meet someone from the net, you might want to be in a public place.
Maybe have an escape buddy, in case things don't go as planned.
Conclusion: yes, you may connect strongly online, but always with a grain of salt :)
Hougal · 31-35, M
@Busybee333 Perfectly said! With grain of salt:)
InHeaven · F
Tried few times. Never worked for me. Lesson learned : you gotta be PRESENT PHYSICALLY somehow in the persons life to 👀 what is really going on. On the computer they will make up any bs story and you, wanting to be in a relationship, will believe each one of them. At the end you always regret it. Its like looking at a TV being fully blind…
SW-User
I think it's possible. You have more chance of meeting and talking to a variety of people. I imagine it would be very difficult to sustain. Both parties would have to be committed to that type of situation.
Hougal · 31-35, M
@SW-User But If both they are determined no matter of the circumstances, it can work?
SW-User
@Hougal Possibly. Who's to say? I've heard of people having great success.
Hougal · 31-35, M
@SW-User okay... Thanks you for your comment!
It's very relevant !
It's very relevant !
Absolutely. Of course things can go very wrong but they can also go very right. Just important to be cautious, mindful and to trust your instincts.
Hougal · 31-35, M
@OlderSometimesWiser Okay. Thanks you for the advices!!!
Wedgiegiver · MVIP
Yes it is possible just don't expect it to last forever sometimes it does not
Hougal · 31-35, M
@Wedgiegiver You're right!
croatiangirl22 · 26-30, F
i think friendship more than love
Hougal · 31-35, M
@croatiangirl22 Why? Explain more plz
croatiangirl22 · 26-30, F
@Hougal i have at least 5 friend on here who i have really great relationship with
Hougal · 31-35, M
@croatiangirl22 Okay... I understand you!
SW-User
I understand it's possible.
Hougal · 31-35, M
@SW-User Okay.. thanks you!
SW-User
Hougal · 31-35, M
@SW-User Thanks you very much!
ThomReidTheBlack · 41-45, M
Yes.
Hougal · 31-35, M
@ThomReidTheBlack Really?
But it may be rare!
But it may be rare!
ThomReidTheBlack · 41-45, M
@Hougal I would not say it is rare anymore. I mean according to some recent polls some people spend about 80% of their waking hours online now.
In many cases most of us spend more time online that just face to face interactions.
In many cases most of us spend more time online that just face to face interactions.
Hougal · 31-35, M
@ThomReidTheBlack But many of people joke with the sentiment or emotion s of other or not know really what they want
SW-User
Yeah probably but I reckon 95% is just lust and sex based, one reason they don't last
hunkalove · 61-69, M
No.
ImperialAerosolKidFromEP · 51-55, M
Possible. I even had conducted my marriage over the Internet for 2 years before Immigration finally let her in
Hougal · 31-35, M
Jexie · 26-30, F
I've had them so I'd say it's possible.
SandWitch · 26-30, F
No, it's physically impossible.