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I don't. I see the younger people of today trusting their most important life decision (choosing a spouse) to a computer because they are too insecure to have the where with all to walk up to someone they like, introduce themselves, and ask them out. Instead, they have to know who they are on Facebook or Instagram, bypassing the most important element of a relationship. Face-to-face interaction. Talk to each other, hear their voice, see their mannerisms. That was all there was when I did all that, so you tried to look your best, not manipulate a pose or an image to post on the web for them to see. Where social media drops the ball is that even though it may match your traits, it's the face-to-face "smell test" that is the most important. Why not eliminate the middle man and do it yourself? If they are unwilling or too shy, then move on because it won't work.