Which do you want more?

Neither, because if you do things wrong you'll be attacked, and if you do things right you'll be attacked. This is not a negative view on life, but rather, a statement of how things are. Even folks like Gandhi, Mother Theresa, and Dr. King had their detractors; so what hope do the rest of us have? I don't concern myself with others opinions. I love and respect all animals, and try to love and respect all humans---though I must admit---the former is much easier than the latter.