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We all have regrets

Let's not share them here. Share them with yourself, and then let them go. We cannot change the past, we only have the future to change. Make the future a positive change within ourselves. Let the past remain where it belongs. The past.
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SW-User
Some people need to vent, and some seek support from others who have dealt with similar things. That's not your call to make.
ShaneMckay · 41-45, M
@SW-Useroh, but it is.
ShaneMckay · 41-45, M
@SW-User But you are not entirely wrong, my friend.
HotMessExpress102 · 41-45, F
@SW-User Ouch.... never said it was my call to make. Did I hit a nerve?

I ask a question, but you did answer truthfully. 😘
ShaneMckay · 41-45, M
@HotMessExpress102 Yes, she did.
SW-User
@HotMessExpress102 You aren't the one trying to tell people to stop posting things, you're fine.
@ShaneMckay I'm sorry, are you a moderator or an admin of the site? If not, then it is not your call to make. Just because you don't like it when people air their frustrations, and seek support instead of bottling it up, doesn't mean you get to dictate what people do or say here. If you don't like it, block the people. The world has a lot of problems and negativity, so if it's "harshing your vibe" then too bad. Get a reality check.
ShaneMckay · 41-45, M
@SW-User You have obviously missed my point entirely.
SW-User
@ShaneMckay No, I haven't. You're telling people to just bottle it up, deal with it, and be more positive. That isn't healthy for anyone to do.
HotMessExpress102 · 41-45, F
@SW-User Breathe darlin breathe...
A lot of times we do need to look at the things that trigger us.
SW-User
@HotMessExpress102 And if he has a problem with people airing their grievances to seek support, then he can either just block the people posting it, or log off for a while.
HotMessExpress102 · 41-45, F
@SW-User Uhm so... do you have a thing for ShaneMckay?

Something is definitely off with this thread 😂
SW-User
@HotMessExpress102 Personally? No. I've seen his post lightly complaining about SW being depressing, and then he makes his one telling people to stop venting for support. It's a public forum, and he shouldn't be trying to tell people what to do or say (if what they are doing/saying isn't illegal or predatory, that is.)
Just because people have problems that want to air out and it's "harshing his vibe" as they say, he wants to tell those people to bottle it up, deal with it, and stop being upset over it. SW has always been this way, he just can't deal with it.
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SW-User
@HotMessExpress102 I take a bit of a stake in it because I, myself, am a troubled person. I've been told to suck it up and deal with it constantly in my life. I know where it can end up, and what it can do to people. I've talked with him before a few times, and to see him starting this kind of crap... I do actually have half a mind to block him, but I still want to make my voice known and heard beforehand.
HotMessExpress102 · 41-45, F
@SW-User
That’s the way!
Rise up and stand!

We are all troubled and none of us our without strife, stress, turmoil and tragedy.

In case you haven’t heard this today... I’m proud of you. ❤️
SW-User
@HotMessExpress102 Well, thank you. I think. I'm so confused now.
HotMessExpress102 · 41-45, F
@SW-User I’m so sorry for confusing you.

You did just honestly say how you felt and for that I’m proud of you and you did stand up for yourself and for that I’m proud of you too.

We all can disagree, but what makes the world go round is understanding and I heard you.
SW-User
@HotMessExpress102 That's why I got confused. I was sure you were entirely on his side, or neutral leaning toward him. So to get that "I'm proud of you" threw me off.

Yes, we can definitely all disagree, and I'm very much used to the knuckle-headed idiots that will die on their hill rather than even remotely try to understand anything.
ShaneMckay · 41-45, M
True, but I think we would ALL benefit of there was A LOT less complaining, and a WHOLE LOT MORE problem fixing!! Complaining NEVER does any good, UNLESS followed by a suggested SOLUTION to the problem.
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