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What are the positive signa you are getting over someone?

I've come a long, most people who haven't been in love won't get it, it's very difficult to get over someone. It's very painful, some say just forget about him and get mad about you reminesin or talking about him. But it takes time and patience... I'm happy just moments ago I was thinking of myself and how I can better my own life, wow it's strange new concept that I openly welcome. Because before I would just think of him and wallow in self pity. I tortured myself and I asked what could I have done to change him, so he can show me the love and effection I wanted. So it feels good now that I can focus on finding the same in myself.
CookieCrumbsF
It happens when you no longer:
- blame yourself or the person for the end of the relationship
- imagine a future with the person
- reminisce the past


It happens when you finally accept that you can find happiness without the person.
@CookieCrumbs Finally I can breathe, I remember a year ago this time, the yearning, my soul was so hurt. Thankfully I'm free now a little more to go
Carissimi70-79, F
It鈥檚 down to time. You can鈥檛 force healing from a loss, you let yourself heal organically, and not to some outside timetable. Eventually, you think of them less and less, until one day goes by when you never thought of them at all. Then a week, and so on. You are healed when it doesn鈥檛 hurt anymore, but it鈥檚 a process.
Keepitsimple51-55, F
You stop thinking of them.
LucyFuhr56-60, F
The day you can finally think of them without feeling good, bad or emotional... that's the day you can call yourself a free woman.
@LucyFuhr Amen! Thats day has come and it's time to celebrate 馃嵕
LucyFuhr56-60, F
@RadiantRuby I'll gladly celebrate that win with you! 馃

Only half a glass please though... I'm a cheap drunk 馃槀
@LucyFuhr hahaha sure only one shot of vodka! 馃馃
SW-User
You're able to see them without idealizations, you're able to realize you have a present and future.. And they belong to the past for a reason
JoyfulSilence46-50, M
When a new woman tickles my heart.
@JoyfulSilence 馃槉 [youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hlW1ac81fFY]
JoyfulSilence46-50, M
@RadiantRuby I just saw this reply. I am not sure how I missed it before. Or if I did see it, I no longer can recall it.

In any event, I cannot see the video now. It says it is not available in my country. What was it about?
JoyfulSilence46-50, M
@RadiantRuby

I put the URL in my browser, and found the title, and then searched for it, and found a YouTube of it that I could see:

[youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=swNh4zRIj70]

That is a touching song. I am glad to be your friend and be with you through the rough times. I hope you can rise from your current pain and find peace and love again.
Beautywithin36-40, F
For me it was time and when I new I could talk about him without my heart hurting.
I guess when you're will, out does that broken feeling.
Tres1351-55, M
the storm's losing it's intensity
Adogslife61-69, M
Forgive them and forget them.
SkeetSkeet100+, F
When I can throw away all of his things
iamonfire69641-45, F
When you can think of them without being angry and also you stop thinking about them.
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@swirlie oh thankfully I learned alot all in a short time, the most important lesson I learned is to never rush, because when we met he rushed me within 2 months he proposed. Secondly he was showing redflags but I ignored them,
One of them being gaslighting/Abusing his ex to the point that she actually went insane.
My cousin who knew her tried to warn but he told me she is bitter because she's friends with his ex. The most important lesson don't ever seek affirmation in a spouse or anyone else, have self affirmation.
I will stay single for a while to heal properly
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