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Very angry wife who feels like a complete idiot and very disrespected!!

So I don’t know how this site works but I’m the wife of the user of this account and I just want all of you to know that my husband had this account behind my back for years. Everything he talked to you all about and posted was behind my back and without my permission! You all need to know he’s a liar and a cheater and if any of you had something going on with him you now know that he was cheating on his wife. He’s lied to you and he’s lied to me
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Just4fun1 · 56-60, M
I’m trying to completely delete this account and it seems I can’t without his password. Sorry to all you people that are offended by my post. I’ll get this all off here as soon as I can
Adogslife · 61-69, M
@Just4fun1 why do you feel you have the right to delete his account. Would you allow him to burn a diary or journal of yours?
Just4fun1 · 56-60, M
@Adogslife leave me alone. I never said I’d do it without his permission. There’s much more to this than you even know so please don’t assume. Unless you DO know and that’s why you’re so eager to give me a hard time
Adogslife · 61-69, M
@Just4fun1 I don’t know either of you. I also don’t believe you’re doing it with his “permission”. If it was his intent for the account to be private from you (which is completely normal here), he’s certainly not giving you access by his own free will and without consequence.

The responses you’re receiving are completely normal. That’s exactly what this site is. Someone posts something and the room responds. If everyone always agreed, the site wouldn’t last. It’d be too smarmy.
Just4fun1 · 56-60, M
@Adogslife he and I had already discussed this earlier and he said he would delete it. He only deactivated it. Our phones are linked and I had every right to log into his account from my phone and have my say on here since he’s already taken every liberty to post anything and everything he’d like to wether I knew about it or not. I had already confronted him about his other account that I had no knowledge of and I explicitly asked him not to do any of this and I asked him if he had any other accounts I didn’t know about and he flat out lied and told me no. See, it’s the lying at disrespect that I’m most upset about so like I said before, please don’t assume anything
Adogslife · 61-69, M
@Just4fun1 [b]I assumed he lied. [/b] There’s no other logical reason for you to be here. But that’s not the issue. The issue is he’s not allowed to have this specific freedom [i]from[/i] you.

Linked phones? He must be an idiot. Who in their right mind would sign up for that? I’m sure it wasn’t his idea. Are you generally this controlling, or is this just a bad example that’s out of character?

Again, there’s nothing wrong with this site. But I will say, if my wife was as apparently controlling as you are, I’d run like hell. There are many places worse for him to run and hide from you. That’s what he’s doing…or was anyway.

Now he’s going to have to hide somewhere else.
Just4fun1 · 56-60, M
@Adogslife controlling? You’ve got to be kidding me! If you only knew how wrong you are you’d be drooling all over yourself with envy. And the linked phones were HIS idea by the way. I’m sure he’ll be more than happy to tell you all about his controlling wife and how he’s so innocent tomorrow. Oh and by the way, he never had to hide anything from me and that’s why I’m so disappointed In him. That and the fact that on thanksgiving weekend I asked him if he had any more accounts and he knew he could be honest with me but he lied anyway. A relationship is supposed to have trust and honesty or why even bother. He could have chosen to live any way he wanted and he knew when he chose me that I wanted our relationship based on honesty and trust first and foremost. So it’s not like he didn’t know what he was getting into when he married me. And it’s not like I forced him to marry me. Like I said, he can explain it all to you and everyone on here tomorrow if he’d like to. And I’m sure he will
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@Just4fun1 check his notebook
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@Just4fun1 I’d love to hear the story…I’m snowed in and no baby today. I’ll start a fresh pot of coffee or pull the alcohol out. To be decided.