😢 Sad sad and sad

The sad side of being single, you tend to be so giving to your family like giving almost all you’ve got spending quality time but they will never prioritize your needs normally because they have family of their own. Time to be truly focused on myself

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Busybee333 · 31-35, F Best Comment

How about being single and unavailable for a while? Why not content too? ;) Time to be your own Queen and take better care of yourself in all senses - there must be things you never got time or courage to do before in life. These alone moments are actually a golden period - use it in your favor to focus and grow in the direction you want. Start by the small pebbles and you'll move the mountain. Dare to fail while learning something new. Dare to love yourself. When you've learned more about yourself, you will value yourself more ane you will see that being single gives you this sense of freedom that will allow you to focus on your goals. We are social beings but some alone time is actually healthy to cope with life and improve in different areas. If you take the time and space you need to heal and grow,your next relationship will start on healthier emotional grounds. All the best :)

TessDun · 36-40, F

🤗@Busybee333 Thank you so much, I will read this over and over again until it will stick to my core :) Not too late for setting new goals right?

Busybee333 · 31-35, F

@TessDun I don't understand why society thinks that after 30, it's over, as if you're 99+ and suddenly shouldn't start anything new in life xD I'm still in my 20s but my white hairs pop! Is it too late for me?! I was shocked about it but now I have embraced it XD When I don't allow this to play a big role in my self esteem, I've noticed others won't pay attention either. My character shines through.

I'd say, if your heart is still beating you've still got time to make your mark in this world. Regardless of age and time if your soul is fresh and enriched with colorful experiences, it will shine through anything. The biggest regret is doing absolutely nothing, ever. Jump into your life actively! Leave social pre-judgments to others, and welcome in your life those who are wiser and understand you better. You may do a few steps alone but eventually you'll find your tribe. Those who encourage you deserve more of your attention :). And what do we say when someone tells us "you can't realize your dreams? We say "[b]watch me[/b]"! 😀 🐯

SW-User

@Busybee333 What you said -- it's how I live. Now that I'm old, I realise I'm alone forever, which is sometimes scary; at the same time, there's a freedom I've never known before. I can't imagine trading it for being part of the couples club again, even if I don't matter to anyone.

Busybee333 · 31-35, F

@SW-User
We make a lot of choices but there is a luck factor playing around in life too, we don't know who is our real soulmate, nor if we will meet him/her in this lifeline. If you feel alone maybe having a pet can help. When a pet gets attached, their affection is so pure and sincere,it can change every day into a nice memory :)

Busybee333 · 31-35, F

Thankfully, online communities like SW here try to support each other morally at the least - psychological and emotional wellbeing have been so undervalued lately, it is such an amazing thing to connect to others throughout the whole world at your fingertips ❤

SW-User

@Busybee333 Lovely, but it takes a lot of $$. As I know from the past. I had a beautiful dog once. I can no longer afford dogs; I might consider a cat someday.