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What makes a woman complete?

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A handsome man(😍) by her side💏💑👫
@Dogemilataka Not every woman’s goal.
@bijouxbroussard i never said it is, but SHOULD be
@bijouxbroussard guys need us, like as a mtf girl, i love guys and understand a lot of what middle-aged men are going through, i want to be beside him and cherish him and have that reciprocated
@Dogemilataka But that’s not every woman’s raison d’etre.
@bijouxbroussard but it SHOULD be, i am not a "natural woman", but my past or current soon to be my past, shows me it should be
@Dogemilataka Your “should’ves” can apply to [b]you[/b] and what you want. That doesn’t mean they must be applied to every woman.
@bijouxbroussard why not?
@Dogemilataka Because it’s not what every woman wants or needs.
@Dogemilataka I had to fight most of my life for the right to live and love as I please. I will also fight for your right to live life the way YOU want! As a matter of fact, I have had some powerful discussions with some very ignorant transphobes. I have one issue...I have known several MTF's in my life and one thing many had in common was that the instant they were done transistioning they became experts in how wimmin feel and act. You've never lived life as a womyn have you? Beyond clothes, makeup, ultra feminine behaviors ( I don't know you but every T i HAVE known thought all that was enough to know about being a Womyn)you have no clue what we deal with our entire lives. I promise you that I am not judging your decisions. It's your body and life. Has no impact on me. The mildly militant Feminist in me wishes you would accept that you have not ever experienced being a Womyn. If I put on a white coat it doesn't make me a brain surgeon...I have a hundred of those but I'll spare you. You might want to take some time to learn something about a Womyns mindset...in 2021 I think more of us don't NEED a man to feel complete. Altering your body does not make you female beyond the physical...yet. You have much to learn grasshopper. The fact is before (i'm assuming you've fully transistioned?) you did alter your body...you were the oppressor just because of your genitalia. Not that YOU behaved that way, I doubt it. If you want to be accepted and supported, a little humility would surely help. I DO hope you have a happy life now...a free life.You will grow into it...you need to give it time.✌️
@fernie2 i still look like a man, so haven't completely transitioned yet, i'd consider myself a closeted gay man, at worst honey, but not overtly feminine beyond my appetite for males and my shitty dress sense, but i respect other women for being themselves, but think a boyfriend does sate the soul...gaping hole in my heart for him (whoever he is)
@Dogemilataka YOUR soul. Does this mean you are not planning to transition? If not...what does the T beside your name stand for? Don't call me honey dear
@fernie2 misread what i said hun, i present publiclyas bisexual (if pushed), am sexually EXCLUSIVELY attracted to men and AM transitioning (starting hormones monday or by wednesday)
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@Dogemilataka You're leaving out lesbians and aces, for one thing.
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@Dogemilataka a supportive partner is wonderful thing to having in life and can help a womsn feel complete. It doesnt have to be a man. It doesnt have to be a lover and they dont need to be handsome.
And shock horror.....some woman like being on their own and fell pretty complete that way!
@RubySoo well, being alone is okay in the short-term, short-to-medium and MAYBE the medium-term, but MANY if NOT MOST (biological females and ALSO biological males, as well as the "everything or everybody in-between") in a medium-term, medium-to-long, long-term DO prefer a companion or partner if not a companion as in a spouse, DOESN'T need to be a heterosexual "loving" or "romantic" relation (s, biological male and a (or with a) biological female or a (or with a) trans woman...or a biological female and a (or with a) biological male or a (or with a) trans man, polyamorous and polygamous relationships INCREASINGLY existing and establishing more and more), COULD be purely a "lustful" or "sexual" relation (s, "red raw raunchy romp"), the inverse CAN be true too in actuality, COULD be a heterosexual "loving" or "romantic" relation (s, biological male and a (or with a) biological female or a (or with a) trans woman or a biological female and a (or with a) biological male or a (or with a) trans man, polyamorous and polygamous relationships INCREASINGLY existing and establishing more and more) and NOT for "lustful" or "sexual" relation (s, NO "red raw raunchy romp")

Appearances of "handsome" or "gorgeous" has "some" general (MAINSTREAM) cultural underpinnings, but ULTIMATELY IS in the "eye (and ear) of the beholder"

Companionship or "pairing" IS socially/societally and biologically-important...yes?
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@Dogemilataka Some of us really couldn't care less about pairing, biologically or otherwise.
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@Dogemilataka clearly for you. Im saying lots of woman dont want or need to be paired. They are complete...all by themselves. X
@SW-User okay?
@RubySoo well yeah, of course for me, that IS how I think and feel, want to be seen and heard