My goal is

to not care what people think. Honestly thinking about it, my need for everyone to like me gets in the way of everything I want to do. My own happiness.

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TwiddlerofThumbs · F

I do. But not in terms of myself. Not about being good enough.

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

What about then?👀

TwiddlerofThumbs · F

@Itsprincess: I am unfortunately a people pleaser. I worry more about if I am giving them what they need.

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

@TwiddlerOfThumbs: that's not unfortunate, that's a good thing😊 I guess I was talking in terms of when I'm worried if someone thinks I'm ugly or they don't like my opinions etc

TwiddlerofThumbs · F

@Itsprincess: It is not. It can be stressful though ~smiles~ I know it can be difficult, but if you can learn ways to worry less about you life gets a lot happier. Most people are more worried about themselves to notices things like how you look, what you are wearing and unless your opinion directly affects them in the moment, they will quickly forget. Enjoy your evening!

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

@TwiddlerOfThumbs: oh right, but it shows you are a good person. Yeah I guess, thanks you too 😊