If you are still looking for someone just to replace the one you had.. you aren't ready yet, isn't?

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plungesponge · 41-45, M

Maybe, maybe not. Most relationships, good and bad, aren't born of untouched green pastures. They grow on the twisted landscapes life has left in our minds.

SW-User

@plungesponge If I keep looking for my ex in every other guy who wana date me, then that means I am not ready for another r'ship just yet and shouldn't waste his time, is all I mean to say.

plungesponge · 41-45, M

Instead of looking for your ex specifically, try working out what aspects of his personality you were attracted to, and look for that in new partners. It's okay for a new partner to have similar qualities as the previous one, as long as you see them as separate individuals

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@plungesponge People at this point look to replicate very conveniently and its not fair at all.