So does anybody believe in the law of attraction?

Reality is a construct of consciousness.

You do have much much much more control over this whole life thing than you think you do.

Does that mean you can literally poof shit into existence? Of course not.

But what it does mean is that by resolving yourself to acheive your aims no matter what, refusing to accept defeat, and instilling within yourself a true and resolute belief that you are all that which you wish to be, there is very little you cannot accomplish.

If anything.

I've always been the kind of guy who went out and did what I needed to do to make my goals etc a reality. I studied, I worked, I tried to recognise opportunities and to make the most of them. And, mostly, it worked!

Then, twelve years ago, something happened which turned my life upside-down. For two years I was up to my neck in stuff which had noting to do with my goals etc but was still extremely important to me. Then, everything crashed and burned and, for the last ten years, my life has been one long downward spiral.

Until I took control again. Until I brought back the guy who did what needed to be done to make his goals and dreams a reality.

There's a lot of truth in the old saying:

"Actions speak louder than words."

So, no. I don't believe that we can speak our goals and wishes into existence. I don't believe that the universe will give us what we want if we just ask it.

I don't think you can just say what you want and it will come true all the time, especially when it's a long term goal or dream. But I think talking about it helps you acknowledge it and prioritize it. Talking about it solidifies the dream, and talking about it means other people know about your goals and can extend opportunities to you when they see them. Talking about it means that it isn't just in your head, and you can have support from people because they know what you're going through. It means people that have been there know that you might need a mentor to guide you. You're on your own if your goals and dreams exist only in your head.

Law of attraction says feel happy and always think what you want. When you feel happy and hopefull, you would automatically work to get what you want. But I didin't believe the universe does something for you, it just comes within your own effort.

I don't think that book that was big, The Secret, is really worth it regarding the laws of attraction. There is something to putting your energy out there and attracting what you need.

It's new age nonsense

Have your own experience, you do it everyday anywhere.

Yes...I'm attracted towards you that's why...

Loa is bullshit

Yes. Everything has energy. Even your thoughts. So use them and your words wisely. 🙂