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SoFine · 46-50, F
When we watched our parents/family conduct their actions to others, that is our formula for life. So around 4-5 you set how to conduct you then.
It takes construct action later on, to un-learn habits from then. Some go out of their way not to be their families , so they become better or worse. Most come from dysfunctional homes, to put an end to dysfunction takes effort.
Also your emotional maturity, can be low, depending on if abused, most that are abused stay in that abused emotional state for life.
We can heal, to forgive those situations, we are better off, to forgive than to hold on.
Be at peace. ..
It takes construct action later on, to un-learn habits from then. Some go out of their way not to be their families , so they become better or worse. Most come from dysfunctional homes, to put an end to dysfunction takes effort.
Also your emotional maturity, can be low, depending on if abused, most that are abused stay in that abused emotional state for life.
We can heal, to forgive those situations, we are better off, to forgive than to hold on.
Be at peace. ..