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I wish I had fathered more than one child... too late now... Do you have any wishes that would have changed your life but is too late now?

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goneeee · F
Yes sometimes wonder if I had never had a child would I would be better off now? I love my daughter but she had three kids and I babysit them which means I have no freedom anymore. My life is stressful. I love those kids, believe me, but I miss my freedom.
altoncolt · 70-79, M
@goneeee sometimes you just need to say... "Sweetheart, I love you and the kids, but you need to make other arrangements, I'll take them every other weekend to help out but you are on your own otherwise." ... Then stick to it!
goneeee · F
@altoncolt It's more complicated than that. If I said that I think my daughter would not have anything to do with me anymore. I couldn't bare that. I know that when all three g'kids are in school, then I'll have my freedom back. She is cutting my hours back as she will be telecommunicating from home. I hope she starts this week and so my days will be shortened by a few hours, which is a miracle! 🙂
altoncolt · 70-79, M
@goneeee That would forever wrong of your daughter to do that to you...
goneeee · F
@altoncolt well it won't happen