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deadgerbil · 26-30, M
She blocked you over that gun post?
Montanaman · M
@deadgerbil yes. It upset her. Triggered her. I care about friendship more than my guns. 😞🤗
BlackPhillip · 36-40, M
@deadgerbil Yes, that's the reason she tossed out a friendship. I'm sure she's typing away right now about how she has one again been victimized by another white cis male.
Montanaman · M
@BlackPhillip No. We shouldn't make judgements on others 😕 🤔 I'd give her the benefit of the doubt. She was genuinely upset. 😔🤗
Carissimi · F
She made a judgment on you. @Montanaman
Montanaman · M
@Carissimi maybe. Maybe not. Is it possible that my post just brought her negativity? And some people just don't want any negativity in their life? 🤔😔🤗
Carissimi · F
I don’t want negativity in my life, and if I see what I don’t want to see, I can either ignore, mute, or block. That doesn’t mean another person should kowtow to my desires or needs, but I suspect this is someone very special to you, or you wouldn’t be bending over backwards to please her. @Montanaman
Montanaman · M
@Carissimi No, not really close, but i just enjoyed her posts, and balk at myself for me being a reason to block. I don't very often offend anyone. My politics should always be easy to take a back seat to other's opinions. I mean, we all believe that we're on the right side of humanity. So my voice will be easier, my post's positive and supportive of other's.
Carissimi · F
Okay, but my politics are synonymous with my values, and I’m not subjugating my values to please strangers online. That’s giving up who you are, but I digress. It’s your life, and your decision. I wish you well, while reminding you that one person self censoring is what is wrong with this country. @Montanaman
BlackPhillip · 36-40, M
@Montanaman I wanted to add one more thing. I'm a gun guy. I always have been. Lately, however, I've either sold or gave my guns to my dad to be locked up. I've been having serious mental health problems, and I've been a suicide risk. It shocks people to know that I'm a Democrat and also love guns. In a way, maybe I can see why she got upset. Look, I don't think blocking you was right. She should've talked to you about it. But maybe she has a friend or someone who killed themselves, or maybe she struggles with suicidal thoughts. I hope she gives you the chance to talk it out. If it turns out to be a case like I listed above, I would understand cutting back on those posts. I would do it for a friend under those circumstances.
Montanaman · M
@BlackPhillip Exactly my thoughts. 👍🤗 Thank you, and I'm sorry you're in a bad way right now. I sure hope you persevere. 😞🤗🤗🙏😇❤️
BlackPhillip · 36-40, M
@Montanaman Thank you! That means a lot.