How should you feel if a friend cheats on her partner?

I didn't want to believe. I didn't think she was capable of it. I had no love for her partner; he was a deadbeat and a loser, but getting a new one less than a month after isn't a coincidence. She was miserable, but I told her to stay because I didn't want her to make a mistake. Now she has and I don't know what to make of it. Was it really a mistake ? And even if it was, can I honestly look at her the same way?

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GoFish ·

you didn't think her staying was a mistake? were they even married?

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GoFish ·

@GohantheThird perhaps 😒

GohantheThird · M

@GoFish well, like you said she was done with him anyway. Thanks for the advice.

GoFish ·

@GohantheThird ok

MarineBob · 61-69, M

Time for a new friend

th3r0n · 41-45, M

Wait, I just read this better, getting a new one less than a month later...do you have other evidence of cheating because dudes are desperate and if she's actually pretty and nice then even dudes with standards will want to gobble her up the moment she's single, if that's the only evidence, even unattractive women can get a boyfriend in like a day or so if they don't have very high standards

GohantheThird · M

@th3r0n the timing is my only evidence besides her misery with the deadbeat. Hopefully she didn't cheat 🤞

th3r0n · 41-45, M

Disgusted by the act, feel sorry for him and feel sorry for her that she has corrupted her self, definitely don't trust her, but if you believe in God definitely pray for her because she clearly needs it

PoohSmasher

Are you upset because she choose someone else and not you?

greensnacks · 31-35, F

I honestly don't know. I would probably think she's an adult and she knows what is she doing. On the other hand, I'm not sure if I like cheater friends. Not aligned with my moral code.

GohantheThird · M

@greensnacks I don't know either. It just came as a shock. Like you said though, she is an adult so I have to let her make her own choices.

Adogslife · 61-69, M

I don’t understand. What does this have to do with you? How have you been slighted by her relationship choices.

Did you want her?

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