I am fed up

I can never find what I’m looking for here. I joined this site because I wanted to be able to talk freely and openly about things that turned me on and get help with fetish matters et cetera but it seems whatever I post. I either get no answer or just a few smart answers. Can anyone help me? I want a good sexual chat I know you’ll probably say this is not the place, et cetera well I’m sorry but I’m at my wits end everywhere I go. I’m told you can’t talk about that here. Someone must be interested in helping me out.