How do you feel when...

How do you feel when you sign up to participate: (for example maybe an ameteur baseball league or team sport or maybe a band or choir something that requires a team.). and when you show up at the scheduled time and place, what if most other players or members do not?

How do you feel if only you and less than a handful of the team shows up ? How would the coaches feel? If players just decided they were vaguely " too busy" to even give notice?

This is how it is with almost every social event Ive witnessed wheter it be a, parent teacher meeting, a book club, or ongoing study/ support group, its always met with flippant people that cant be trusted to rsvp or even give notice,let alone make a medium level comittment. Once a week for a few hours on the weekend is not considered a big commitment,so why is it disrescpted?

Its really sickening that people choose to be untrustworthy and fail to care about keeping true to your appointments.

Emergencies are of corse understandable but blatant disregard for other people's time is disgusting.