I Am Loyal to My Friends

Lately, I've felt like my closest friends just don't want to be around me. They make plans right in front of me without inviting me, ignore me when I speak, and they never defend me when something malicious is said about me. The other day, one explicitly told me that he didn't want me to hang out with them. It's so difficult to handle, because I love and value all of them so much. I don't know what's happening, but I wish it would stop.

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Jay04Sch · 46-50, F

You feel like an outcast. In a group of friends there is always a leader. Personality conflicts especially if there is chicks involved. Jealousy feeling inferior to you.

It's life .... People come and go. But to protect your own emotional well being it will only cause you more harm distant yourself from them.

midnight02 · M

have confidence. it's very noticeable to people but not easy to see yourself. they may think you are not a confident person

Sparkles · 18-21, F

@kithywithy: I don't think that's the case. I've always been more stable in terms of self-esteem than the rest of them. I'm usually the one that helps them through their insecurities.

midnight02 · M

@Sparkles: it happens to me sometimes and its usually because of my poor reputation. they may not take you seriously, or may have attached something to your name that you are not aware of

bluemachine · 31-35, M

sometimes peoples outgrow each other. message me and we can talk. ive had a similar experience

slenderboy · 18-21, M

Maybe you need to make new friends

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