Thankyou that is very kind I think I have to find friends who are not as selfish on the 25th of June my best friend died of lung cancer and that is hard enough but yesterday the 11th of July my 40th birthday I was in hospital for numerous tests for cancer myself I told one of my friends of whom I have helped many times and she has not even said anything didn't even ask how I got on ... I'm hurt and angry that a man who I only met a few months ago was more supportive than those I've known over a decade