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I Believe A Guy And A Girl Can Be Just Friends

I am not all together certain of this one.... I am very happily married and I have been helping a Widow of a very dear old friend of mine who passed away - he was quite a wealthy man and I like his Wife who is a much younger woman than he was but as a friend and nothing more but I do get some very strange and uncomfortable vibes that I do my best to squash as they occur but honestly these overtures are at times uncomfortable. I limit my involvement to where it does the most good for her and her family to be a good friend and be helpful to them and as much as possible I involve my Wife directly in these endeavours. The fact is she misses him terribly - we all do but no one more than she does and there is simply no replacement for his vacuum in everyone's life.
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pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M
I control the situation by bringing my Wife into the conversation on a very regular basis and by very carefully limiting my exposure - this has been five years since he passed away and yes it is concerning. She is a very wealthy lady - but not everything is for sale and that sure includes me.