Why can ‘t men and women just be friends? There are some men I feel closer to then women, and I can open up to freely about my life and struggles... but it always turns out weird...
Because ,they are biologically wired to like women as a romantic/sex partner. You can be pals, but forming a close emontional bond to man, usually leads to the man falling in love with you. People do want to pretend that ain't so, but unfortunitly, it is.
"Friends" is a peer relationship. Many men do not see women as their peers; they prefer their traditional role as the higher status person. They would, as they see it, lose power by having a woman friend with no chance at the "benefits." Also, many women cannot have a strong long term friendship with a man without letting it turn romantic. Closeness brings out their bonding hormones.
They can be friends, people just have to understand boundaries.
SW-User
I've had close female friends without a romantic attraction but it only seems to be a temporary friendship until she finds a relationship and then the friendship seems to end instantly. I've lost two this year for this reason.
SW-User
If they like something about you it probably makes them want to be more than a friend