Are you obsessed? Do you have some kind of obsession about something?

The older generation represented on here by various men seem to be obsessed with sex. I have to find out if they have potency problems or if this is a natural phenomenon of men who are getting older. If it’s hormonal or something???

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EagerDaddy · 51-55, M

Interesting thought. I can’t really complain about potency or hormonal balance, but I certainly perceive more pleasure from sex when getting older, probably also because I enjoy sex much more now I learned I don’t need to hurry or perform, but can concentrate on giving my partner most pleasure, and more. I certainly found out that my pleasure comes from the pleasure I give to her and I admit enjoying that to the fullest! It really is a gift that keeps giving.

Ximenajacoba · 31-35, F

@EagerDaddy You have only just seen this as the way you get more pleasure??

EagerDaddy · 51-55, M

@Ximenajacoba When getting older my focus in life (also in career for instance) became less on status, performance, ‘being the man’ and more (yes, a discovery!) on how much pleasure I can derive from giving. Not just in sex; also in charity for instance. But certainly in sex as well! I am less interested in my own fysical pleasure and orgasm, but so much more in the pleasure I can give and bring! Yes, sex once was something to do, often done within short time, but now it is something I almost leisurely enjoy, enjoy through what ‘giving’ gives back, for long time.
If that is an obsession: may I be obsessed till 120!

EagerDaddy · 51-55, M

@Ximenajacoba I really hope I could at least satisfy you intellectually by my explanation😉

Adroneandastrain · 46-50, M

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Those are what i'm obsessed about, with Aesthetics being the unifying element.

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