Ghosting prevalency

I hate how prevalent ghosting is. No matter where you try to talk to people to connect, they ghost. I used to think it's because I was the problem and because I would scare them off but in reality, I realized it's just been normalized to ghost now

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SW-User

People who ghost are quite simply cowards. Communication is an option and a choice .

UnknownEnigma · 26-30

@SW-User I agree 100 percent!

SW-User

@UnknownEnigma I'm done with these types of people.

UnknownEnigma · 26-30

@SW-User Yeah but it's almost hard to be fully done with them, because you never know the next person that will ghost you next. Like you can meet someone new and hope for the best but they can just ghost you. So that's the suckiest part of it all, is that you can't predict who will do it or not, unless you just entirely give up on people which some people have...but if you're like me where you still want to try and make new friends, engage and interact with people, it's sort of impossible to avoid it all together

SW-User

@UnknownEnigma You make a good point. I am just trying to learn from my experiences of this . I've noticed if a person has told you they have ghosted others then chances are they will ghost you too. I'm not talking about people you just met either. I'm talking about those whom you may have known a long time

UnknownEnigma · 26-30

@SW-User Honestly it's just best to trust their actions, not words. I've been ghosted by plenty of people who have told me they hate when people ghost because it's happened to them

SW-User

@UnknownEnigma absolutely! I don't trust words . I go by actions and patterns. I observe carefully.

UnknownEnigma · 26-30

@SW-User Bingo!