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Ghosting prevalency

I hate how prevalent ghosting is. No matter where you try to talk to people to connect, they ghost. I used to think it's because I was the problem and because I would scare them off but in reality, I realized it's just been normalized to ghost now
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unregisteredhypercam4 · 22-25, M
Been ghosted several times myself. My personal issue with it is that, although yes, I was putting off some red flags, but that's because I didn't know any better (possible aspergers), and I definitely would have appreciated some constructive criticism so it wouldn't happen again. I get that there are a lot of unreasonable guys out there, but what am I supposed to do when I'm ghosted? What did I do wrong? One lesson I've learned is that if they really want you, they won't play games and will forgive little mistakes as long as they know you mean well and are willing to grow. I have zero desire to try online dating again; waiting for another opportunity irl.
UnknownEnigma · 26-30
@unregisteredhypercam4 Yup, it's a cycle because you can't learn from it, since they ghosted you and didn't tell you why. So the next time you talk to a person, you start over thinking every response and overthinking every response of theirs. Tbh, even when you've said or done nothing wrong, people still ghost, so it has nothing to do with what we said. They'll ghost you just to prioritize someone else. Yeah the games people play these days is unacceptable but it happens. Yup quit OLD a long time ago (online dating)