Been ghosted several times myself. My personal issue with it is that, although yes, I was putting off some red flags, but that's because I didn't know any better (possible aspergers), and I definitely would have appreciated some constructive criticism so it wouldn't happen again. I get that there are a lot of unreasonable guys out there, but what am I supposed to do when I'm ghosted? What did I do wrong? One lesson I've learned is that if they really want you, they won't play games and will forgive little mistakes as long as they know you mean well and are willing to grow. I have zero desire to try online dating again; waiting for another opportunity irl.