Become the Person You Seek
Someone once gave me a piece of advice that stuck with me: “Be the kind of person you want to meet.”
In relationships, we’re often drawn to people who seem to fill a gap in us; the shy go for the bold, the introvert for the outgoing, the kind-hearted for the rebel. It feels like balance, like they complete us. But more often than not, it creates imbalance.
Why? Because over time, you may start bending yourself to fit their world. You lose touch with who you are, and suddenly you’re in a life that feels unfamiliar; like you don’t quite belong.
Here’s the truth: no one can truly complete you. Only you can do that. So instead of looking for someone to fill the missing parts, become that whole person. Be the kind of partner you’d want to have.
That’s how you attract someone who’s not a patch, but a partner; someone who respects, complements, and grows with you, not over you.
In relationships, we’re often drawn to people who seem to fill a gap in us; the shy go for the bold, the introvert for the outgoing, the kind-hearted for the rebel. It feels like balance, like they complete us. But more often than not, it creates imbalance.
Why? Because over time, you may start bending yourself to fit their world. You lose touch with who you are, and suddenly you’re in a life that feels unfamiliar; like you don’t quite belong.
Here’s the truth: no one can truly complete you. Only you can do that. So instead of looking for someone to fill the missing parts, become that whole person. Be the kind of partner you’d want to have.
That’s how you attract someone who’s not a patch, but a partner; someone who respects, complements, and grows with you, not over you.
