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Do you feel some people try to be supportive but

their words actually make you feel worse? It happens sometimes. They just make you feel like your doubts are true.
SarithBorn18-21, M
It's why i try to be really careful with my words of comfort. 馃槆
@SarithBorn great little one
I [b]try[/b] not to let the opinions of others bother me. It depends on what I think of them as a whole, and what their place is in my life. For some, I'm extremely sensitive to the words used. Others, I just laugh at them
I鈥檓 sensitive to words when I鈥檓 feeling vulnerable or down. It鈥檚 hard tolerating people that think they know everything. No one knows what鈥檚 best for you except you. It鈥檚 best to ignore the negative people and their words. @MoonlightLullaby
@ChangeYourDestiny That's true and one reason I just try to let you be vs giving advice now.馃挅
@MoonlightLullaby awe thanks but I feel your advice is good advice
I'm sure it's unintentional. Sometimes we look to others to tell us our doubts are wrong or we are worried for no good reason. Some of those times our doubts might be felt the same by others before we even make ours known.
@Bang5luts that鈥檚 true
Jeephikelove46-50, F
That happens to me far more often than I like to admit. I鈥檝e started ignoring those comments.
So they think they鈥檙e being supportive but they are rubbing salt in your wound. 鈽癸笍 I鈥檓 sorry @Jeephikelove
Virgo7961-69, M
Trying to help usually doesn't end well, i very seldom say anything
@Virgo79 you seem nice and thoughtful. I鈥檓 sure you would never make anyone feel worse . Lol 馃槀馃憤馃徏
Virgo7961-69, M
@ChangeYourDestiny i think i have馃槀
Ambroseguy8051-55, M
What did I say this time? 馃
Not you @Ambroseguy80
That's exactly why I so often use:

iamonfire69636-40, F
Sometimes it feels that way

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