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I met a nice girl.....

I met a nice girl on here just to be a friend we got along and chatted then the nice girl in one of her PM’s told me she wanted to die. I ask her why and told her no that's not a good idea then she said “ I not here for you to fuck with”. And blocked me. Wow that caught me off guard. It doesn't bother me as it happens a lot on social places on the internet. People judge you and think you have ulterior motives. When all you want to do is be nice. I realise she has issues but it did twist my brain. But I guess it was my fault I kinda knew before she said that where this scenario was going.

Dada...
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They was probably just trolling you to begin with
@ExperienceDLT i don't see it that way.... There are real people out there that are hurting.....
@masterofyou if a person was seriously hurting and suicidal they wouldnt block someone for just trying to help
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@ExperienceDLT oooh...they would.
Of course....they probably didnt really intend to end their life.....but some people here thrive on the drama...especially if they sense someone really cares about them.
They want sympathy and someone to show some tlc, be nice, show support, but suddenly...your kind words are looled upon as interfering, 'none if your business'.
I've been blocked by a friend here i was genuinely worried about after they poured out their problems to me. Knew them for years. They became abusive more than once and eventually blocked me and put up posts slagging me off as nasty and judgemental and accused me of stalking them.

Ya can't win.....lesson....don't be too nice or supportive.
@RubySoo it makes no sense for someone to do that to someone who was legit concerned for their well being
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@ExperienceDLT well...it happened...because people who ask for advice and opinions really dont want to hear anything that differs from their own thoughts. People in situations that are clearly worrying to others cannot always see the dangers themselves.

My friend was a very vunerable younger person who really was in real danger from what they told me...over years.... but good old Auntie Ruby pointing out dangers became someone trying to spoil their fun. In fact, i still expect one day I shall find out something awful has happened to them. I pray they are safe of course, but at the moment, ive no clue.
kodiac · 26-30, M
@RubySoo This☝🏻
kodiac · 26-30, M
@RubySoo kind along the same lines ,user posted about being alone and desperately lonely ,i offered to be a friend. The response was well considering your age we wouldn't have anything in common.