I think calling an honest person a liar

I think calling an honest person a liar, for your own benefit, to keep your reputation in tact, is the worst thing a human can do, and probably the most selfish thing to do. It’s an act of desperation and makes the accuser look bad and not trustworthy.
My fighting friends post continued… so now I know why they aren’t talking. They disagree about what cheating is
Yep one of my friends who drinks excessively and has fooled around behind his wife’claims that BJ aren’t “cheating” so anyone who says he is cheating is a liar. Because getting a BJ at a bar isn’t cheating. And if you call it cheating, that’s lying. OMG

Mindful · 56-60, F

Wow. Wow. Wow.
At any cost.
Wow.@eMortal
Sigh.
He’s bisexual.
I don’t care, as long as he isn’t trying to romance me he can be tri- sexual.
Aside from lying about it, he’s a great human being.
So I just find it sad that he changes his moral code to cover up a self truth.

I get that people don’t want to “announce” their private sexual lives but don’t denounce someone who is honest! By calling them a liar just in case they are revealing your secrets

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

Ah, we'd talk to no body if it were for all these lies being told.
Seems everybody and their damn dog is living on cloud delusion.

It's scary actually...

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@Mindful it's intimidating approaching someone all knowing especially when it's something we're not proud of. Maybe try softening a little. Not to baby him but to get him to open up, the re question is, is it for you or him?