I Lost My Best Friend

I didn’t want to mention this in my last experience because it is still a very upsetting thing to me but felt it had to be said after a small time out.

I once had a best friend called Alexander and we were friends even since childhood. we were very close.

he chose to join the military

i dont want to seem like i have a grudge against russians or russia because i don't. not all russians are bad.

i am just in mourning still because my friend died because of this situation and I miss him a lot. i am angry it had to happen.

he was taken to soon.

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Mamapolo2016 · F

Oh, honey, that's tough. Losing those you love in whatever fashion is always hard. Mourning is important...don't let anyone tell you not to cry, or not to feel bad or sad. Feeling the bad is crucial to moving on to the place where you can think about him and your good times.

Russians are people too, some of them just as young and just as loved. Old men plan and pay for wars, young men and women fight them, often wen they're not sure what they're fighting about.

There may be no way t make it make sense,no cause that semms worth the life of someone precious to you. The situation you describe may be even harder, because you're not a widow or a sister or a mother, just someone whose life was made richer by his presence.

Hang inthere, love. The sun will shine again.