I Am Losing My Best Friend
This is an update on my previous post ...
When I made that post I was going through a lot, the month of July is a hard reminder to me of the long term relationship I ended with my ex bf .. so during that time I was unknowingly neglecting my friendship with my best friend because i was busy mopeing and copeing with my sadness. she was hurt by my distance .. and confronted me about how she felt we were growing apart (which we are I can't deny it) we've been friends since 7th grade .I really thought I was loosing her at that time but some time later we were friendly again . And have been since ..it's weird being friends while at the same time knowing that you are growing apart .
But she`s like a sister to me and her family is like family to me. I`m transferring to a new college soon and I am worried about her because she relys and depends on me a lot. I told her I would still visit home when I could. She's been honest with me saying she might become more and more distant as the date of my departure arives. I dont know how to handle this situation ..should I let her become more distant and leave her alone ..?
When I made that post I was going through a lot, the month of July is a hard reminder to me of the long term relationship I ended with my ex bf .. so during that time I was unknowingly neglecting my friendship with my best friend because i was busy mopeing and copeing with my sadness. she was hurt by my distance .. and confronted me about how she felt we were growing apart (which we are I can't deny it) we've been friends since 7th grade .I really thought I was loosing her at that time but some time later we were friendly again . And have been since ..it's weird being friends while at the same time knowing that you are growing apart .
But she`s like a sister to me and her family is like family to me. I`m transferring to a new college soon and I am worried about her because she relys and depends on me a lot. I told her I would still visit home when I could. She's been honest with me saying she might become more and more distant as the date of my departure arives. I dont know how to handle this situation ..should I let her become more distant and leave her alone ..?
