I Want a Best Friend

HEY!

So I have come to my realization that I need a friend. I don't have ANY friends where I live and I would really like someone I could call or text if I ever have problems but before that I would want it to start off as a really good friend foundation. Someone I can count on and talk to. Tell them about my day ETC.... But you have to be 100% REAL, No bullshit because I am keeping it REAL! YOU could also talk to me and vent all you needed! I am a good friend but I need to prove it to someone. I don't know if this sounds desperate or not but I am just looking for someone I can call my best friend. I realized that maybe meeting people in real life is pointless from my past experiences and maybe an online friend could be a better way to go. If anyone is interested, let me know and message me! :)

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Drew1965

Wow! What do you mean maybe meeting people in real life is pointless. Real life is real the web is just some ones edited version of their real life. At 18 you have some ups and downs obviously, people have betrayed you confidences, but that's life ! We live f-up and go on. failure is normal. How many times as a baby did you fall down and get backup again? You didn't fail as a baby you learned. some how in adolescence we forget that falling down getting emotionally and physically hurt is the normal process of learning. At 40 I learned to stop getting sucked in to the charm and ego of smart sociopaths. I have less friends but I have an honest friendship with myself and the friends I still maintain. yes friendship takes work and sometimes one friend works harder than the other at it, but if your ok with the direction of that friendship then that can be OK, If not maybe put your energy into a better friend. I found university and school the best place to make friends because it is a new discovering type of environment for new interactions and friendships to develop. The internet is easy but real friends are in your real life.