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Why do some people prefer people that are straightfoward/not so nice than very polite passive people like me (honest answers)?

Im nice, kind, polite and agree with my friends and whatever or traspass to please people but people seen to avoid me but my sister is a sweetheart too but she is straightfoward, tells it like it is and says her own opinion. She disagrees with something she doesnt agree with and she has a lot of friends.
Some of my friends says she rather hang with my sister than me because I'm too nice and passive and boring.
Beats me. Who knows why some people prefer the straight forward and not so nice people in there own lives to be around and hang around. To me the ones that are more straight forward and are more of the like drama filled people. I can't stand that. I'm nice also and kind, but not a push over. I'll stand up for myself whenever I have to
Classified · M
A straightforward answer is right to the point. It can be refreshing to settle matters quickly.
MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F
@Classified: I know that
Spinner · 61-69, M
She sounds a good person to have around.
MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F
@Spinner: she is but I don't understand why I dont have thay much friends.
Spinner · 61-69, M
There are times when politeness doesn't pay.
MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F
@Spinner: why ever so not?

 
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