We have no control over how people see us or think of us.
Then why even waste your time -to mull on this. Your happy state is how you are in you, how you live day to day.
People can be a mirror of our internal state - so ask your self, what is their about you that you are uncomfortable with?
Quote for you:
He who knows others is wise; he who knows himself is enlightened.”
― Lao Tzu