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I have this one rare guy friend

Who is close enough to me to joke around yet is very respectful like he never ever flirted or made me feel uncomfortable in any way. He restores my faith in men and humanity tbh
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greenmountaingal · 80-89, F
Don't assume he isn't interested in you as a woman at all.

Frankly, unless he is gay or over approximately 70 years old, that is unlikely.

IstillmissEP is making a crude estimate of the time for comic emphasis in his post. It probably won't happen next week, and he sounds sensitive enough not to grab anything...but, count on it, he does find you attractive.

That doesn't mean he isn't a good friend to have. He sounds A-OK. Just don't assume he is not like every other heterosexual man; he's a gentleman, but that doesn't mean he isn't attracted.
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I don't mind if he's attracted or not but he doesn't really have to show it. Sometimes we need a break
greenmountaingal · 80-89, F
@MissingNotes: Sounds like a great friendship.
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JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
yea, I enjoy platonic friendships a lot ... but sometimes flirtations are fun
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JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
riiight....go grab someone's boobs
limefairy · 51-55, F
I'm happy for you meeting someone special.
Can he cook, too?
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Not really
Tasmin11 · F
They're not that rare at all, or maybe I'm just not attractive. . o.
xSharp · 31-35, M
what is not flirting? i could never say anything more than "hey" without being accused of flirting..
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How many girlfriends has he had in the four years?
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Zero
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I had a friend like that. I could never set him up with anyone (he wouldn't let me). He told me he was gay after many years.
SW-User
he's not gay that's for sure
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Too early to talk about forever. I was 21 not that long ago 😑
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I've known him for 4 years 😑
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