Why is it so hard to make friends

XD or am I just not approachable?

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FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M

Making them is easy, it's getting rid of them that's the hard part.

xxcandy2k13xx · 26-30, F

XD apparently making them is the hard part for me

FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M

@xxcandy2k13xx: Well, I went to church once and made like 8 friends in about an hour.

xxcandy2k13xx · 26-30, F

@FloorGenAdm: I also went to church once and one of the deacons grabbed my ass...xD so that's definitely not the place I wanna make friends

worndown · 56-60, F

it doesnt come naturally to me either

sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M

lesser drama that way.

xxcandy2k13xx · 26-30, F

Granted that is true but I just feel lonely because I see everyone on campus with friends and or study buddies and I can't seem to find people like that.

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SW-User

I think people have their own drama to deal with. It is not always that we are not approachable, it is that others may feel insecure themselves

BlackTeaBunny · 26-30, F

I'm having the same problem too. What kind of vibe do you put off?

xxcandy2k13xx · 26-30, F

I know how to interact with people. I just I'm just choosing the wrong people

BlackTeaBunny · 26-30, F

Oh okay. How do you meet these people?

SW-User

Interact with people. It's simple.🙂

xxcandy2k13xx · 26-30, F

Tried that in class and they just looked at me, turned the other way and started talking to other people...lol so I'm gonna need a different approach

SW-User

@xxcandy2k13xx: That works for me. I don't look for friends, it just happens naturally to me.

MrSmooTh · 31-35, M

You just have to increase your level of fun.

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