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Sometimes friends can break your heart too.


When you show up to your best friends work place with gifts, food and balloons to surprise them as an early birthday present and they dont even pick up their phone or text you back and you realize they werent even at work so you look like an idiot. Why do I have this desire to make people feel special and loved!? The least he could of done was reply to me.
He said 'bae', that's your first hint that he's part retarded
Wisteria · M
Thats how we talk to each other, we make fun of pop culture. Hes a nice person and we just resolved this. He feels really bad.
Thanks for the update, I was worried!

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SW-User
What a jerk, gift the things to yourself, snack on the food and hang up the balloons in your bedroom
It's either he is seriously busy or he doesn't see you as how you see him.
Wisteria · M
His birthday marks our 5th year friend anniversary. He recently got into some trouble with the law and he apologized because he was busy. He said he'll make it up to me. Said it'd be a date. But im more upset i called out of work to surprise him and i wasnt even able to.
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If you can't beat them, eat them.
Thanos · 31-35, M
🤔 maybe he was busy did he tell you he's gonna be at work?
Wisteria · M
I was trying to reach him, but he didnt call me back or reply to my texts, but we just finished talking and he said hed make it up to me.
Thanos · 31-35, M
@Wisteria: it happens i don't think it's his fault unless he told you he's gonna be there and didn't
Zonuss · 46-50, M
Never be too nice to people. Too much selfishness now. Work on your self esteem and independence more. And dont try to please. A casual approach is more appropriate long term.
I'm sorry. That was inconsiderate. Possibly he was very busy, or distracted. The other possibility (which I've encountered) is that he doesn't take friendships as seriously or value them as he would a more "significant" relationship.

 
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