I prefer my kids stay at home, and have friends over...
Two of my son's are at home and both have their friends over, there are 7 boys and my youngest son's girlfriend over right now...At least I know where they are and what they are doing. It's also nice to have a couple of them over for supper, one lives on his own and doesn't get to eat as well as he does when he comes over to visit...I'm more than happy to feed them.