My brothers wife

My brother died a few months ago from a heart attack leaving his Widow to fend for herself. She is close to my age, maybe a few years older, but not much, but she smokes like a chimney.

Today I am going on a hike into the back woods with my dog and was considering calling her, but not sure she could make the journey, I know exercise is hard for a smoker. What if I get her going on the idea and then she bails halfway through the hike or something, or maybe she dies on the trail or something, that would be awful. Maybe I shouldn't call her. What do you think?

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UreBesFrend · M

An update on this, I was going to call her but her number is no longer on my phone for some reason. I am wondering if my wife deleted it, maybe thinking I was going to jump in there, but I could never date a smoker, it just grosses me out.

Anyways I went on the hike alone, it was pretty aggressive with lots of snow and ice and I had to slide down on my bum a few places. Up at the snow line it was a meter deep so she would never have made it. Even I was worn out at the end of that. It was about 8km climbing a mountain.

SW-User

If your wife deleted your sister in law's number there is a real problem