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Friendship drifting apart.

Im young and I currently moved from the province Im in. I know im probably too young lurking on sites. But I really need your opinion on this one. Its been probably 2 weeks since I moved. Im really attached to my friends from last school year since I dont have much friends growing up. Ive been really attached to this one guy last year. Am I being unreasonable of being jelous now that this guy is making friends and not checking up on me? We have been inseparable, were two peas in a pod. But now that im far away, im really hurt that were drifting apart no matter how hard i try to keep everything at its place. Im the one constantly reaching out and making things work. Im unclear of my feelings toward him but Im sure is hurt. Hurt as in I will bawl my eyes out for this. I always make sure that he have me to listen to everything about his life. Im there when hes feeling down, he need someone to talk to, and to rant on some things. But as you can see, Im all alone right now and ranting on a site. Please give me some advice, tell me what I need to do to feel better, or what I need to do to resolve this conflict. Im counting on this site since I dont have friends irl. I hope you dont find this shallow since Im young and the content of this rant is not as deep as the others. I think my feeling are still valid so please interact with me.
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Midlifemale · 61-69, M
First, you are correct that you are too young to be consumed with the friendship of one young guy or girl. At your age, you should be paying attention to your education and talents and interests for your future and not falling in-love. Friends and people come and go in our lives as we get older, especially when you move...it's part of life and growing up. Try to make new friends where you live now..school...join clubs...etc.
Don't let his friendship make you unhappy or consume your thoughts. Find a hobbie....this is part of life...very normal..move on.
jellyace · 18-21, F
@Midlifemale yeah, I truly made everything about them that I forgot about myself lol. Its never been easy for me to make friends though, so it sucks