My friend is bullied by 6 people. What do I do?

My new friend of this school year (call her Sm) and I have gotten really close. She's really sweet and tells me a lot of things but today she told me that everyday, after school when she walks to the school behind ours, to pick up her little sister, 6 9th graders will follow her and push her around until sm arrives at her sister's school. I have looked through the yearbook with her and she can't find them. They weren't at school today so she couldn't point them out to me. This has been going on for a month and I want to help Sm but I can't find those boys in the yearbook. Help me! She wants to tell the school staff once we identify them but I find it really hard to keep it in! My sister knew many people at my junior high (because she graduated there) but she can't seem to find anything either. Sorry if this is long but I'm just really concerned. Sm has been bullied a lot in elementary for speaking out about bullies (they called her a snitch all year) and she's scared something like that will happen again :( please help

UPDATE:
My friend was walking again yesterday and she was pretty sure they weren't at school. On the fence their was a bag of candy and a not that said "Dear ____, we're sorry." We hope they are sincere but we haven't seen them at school today either. Sm wants to confront them the next time she sees them.

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TheDisciplinarian · 61-69, M

Have her Enroll in Judo class

Actually... at times of competition..i would find a few girls competing against guys

EmilyLee810s · 26-30, F

Who cares about taking a picture of them just do it or they will never get in trouble. They can't suspend you if you are taking pictures of someone getting bullied to prove it.

SW-User

Get some evidence, tell her to take martial arts classes, and to start hanging out with OTHER ninth graders there, and keep them on her side by treating them to parties and stuff, once they listen to her, they can form a team and take the bullies down. She can click a pic of the bullies and inform the school dean already, I advised something similar to my friend and it worked for him, one punch to his bullies stomach and the bs stopped

JPGEbron10 · 26-30, M

Well, for the meantime, keep hanging out with her because she needs all the comfort and company that she needs. Hmmm. Why not trying opening it up with her parents? :)

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NatLo16 · 18-21, F

@JPGEbron10: thanks I'll hopefully be able to look into it more tomorrow 😄

JPGEbron10 · 26-30, M

@NatLo16: okay. send me a message? okay :)

NatLo16 · 18-21, F

@JPGEbron10: sure, I'll try to remember to

SW-User

First you need video evidence. To show the staff and to ensure they actually do something. Maybe get her parents or yours involved? Btw if you have a older brother you could just have him woop some butt.

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SW-User

Wtf what a terrible school. Though you could still tape them but just say a parent did it? Though couldn't they make a exemption for something like this?

NatLo16 · 18-21, F

@GrinchFairy: my friend wants to at least get a picture of their clothes or bags. She's also hoping that the more people that know about the story, the more people who'll stay with her after school because I can't

SW-User

Clothes or a picture of their bag won't be enough. In my opinion. I would suggest she take the risk of taking a picture of their faces. If the school staff gets mad at her she can say it was the only way for her to help keep her safe. They won't suspend a kid much less a girl for trying to stop getting bullied.

gurlwatcher22 · 61-69, M

Tell a teacher, a guidance counselor or the principal.If they are anything like the ones in my junior high school, those pussies will ignore you too.It sucks but you'll probably have to take some ass whippings from these thugs before they get suspended or expelled on unrelated charges.Good luck!

Nefarious · 26-30, M

Two words

MORTAL KOMBAT

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NatLo16 · 18-21, F

@Cognosco: I'm not gonna beat some 9th graders asses I'd rather be be bullied by them then my friend. Besides, I'm the 2nd shortest 7th grader in the whole school. They'd prolly kill me

Nefarious · 26-30, M

Get your people to do it. Man, my people would shoot for some shit like this. I don't know how you all get down.

tiggerandariel13 · 41-45, MVIP

@NatLo16: my g/f Jenna was bullied

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