Have you ever been accepted into a group in which you felt out of place?

For me, it was my sorority. Since the pandemic, I’ve been think about how I even got a bid from the one that I did, because I don’t fit the mold.

Had a face time call with my big today. Felt even more like I didn’t belong.

Curious to know if anyone else has had a similar experience?

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bijouxbroussard · F

Yes, also a sorority. Senior year I pledged both a social sorority and was tapped for an academic sorority. I felt very out of place in the social one.

CoralieJuliet · 22-25, F

@bijouxbroussard Just curious, what made wait until senior year, versus doing it as a freshman or sophomore? I don’t even think I you can rush as an upperclassman at my campus.

bijouxbroussard · F

@CoralieJuliet I was finally talked into pledging. I almost didn’t do it at all.

CoralieJuliet · 22-25, F

@bijouxbroussard That’s a lot of fees and everything just for one year. I’m sorry you felt out of place though.

bijouxbroussard · F

@CoralieJuliet It was an interesting experience.