Have you ever been accepted into a group in which you felt out of place?

For me, it was my sorority. Since the pandemic, I’ve been think about how I even got a bid from the one that I did, because I don’t fit the mold.

Had a face time call with my big today. Felt even more like I didn’t belong.

Curious to know if anyone else has had a similar experience?

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Out of curiosity, in what ways do you feel you don't fit the mold?

CoralieJuliet · 22-25, F

At my campus each sorority has a reputation with the exception of like 3 of them.

I just feel like when people hear which one I am part of, they expect a gorgeous and extroverted social type who knows how to party with the epitome of class. Most of these girls will realistically be socialites.

I have the classy part down, but nothing else. I’m so introverted and would rather read a book than attend a mixer. @issues