Does this send out alarm bells or is it me being paranoid

Five day ago I turned 18 so now everybody has access to my PM’s which is ok. But I have been getting lots of massages from guys who I don’t know me send me massages with “hi gorgeous or sweetheart” with these emojis 🥰 😉 💕 and even present. Is it normal to feel a bit uncomfortable with these guys or am I just being a snob. When I get massages from strangers that just say “hi how are you” I usually reply and ask how they are if I have time 🤷‍♀️

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

SW-User

Sounds like your gut is already telling you what you need to know...all you gotta do now is listen. 🚩🚩🚩

Peppa · 31-35, F

@SW-User it's nice to see decent responses. It sickens me sometimes that even when complaining a young lady can sometimes still get accosted on her post. ❌❌❌

ChloeYoung · 22-25, F

@SW-User Yup I’m glad it’s not just me then, thanks

ChloeYoung · 22-25, F

@Peppa I posted a post about a month ago and a couple of weeks later I realised I missed somebody’s comment. So because I think if someone bothers to reply to my posts I think is polite to respond, so I did. He replied by saying how dare I answer him 2 weeks later, he was very hostile 🤷‍♀️

Peppa · 31-35, F

@ChloeYoung learned lesson. Sometimes it's just too long a gap especially if it's some fleeting comment.

SW-User

@ChloeYoung red flag for sure. To put things in perspective? I text my [b]wife[/b] in the morning, and she might not reply til later that night, or the next day...or not at all. Lol That's my wife, not some stranger in cyber space, and we don't lose our shit over it. If someone is going to be pissed bc you respond 2 wks later, what they're telling you is , " don't bother with them". You'll be better off.

ChloeYoung · 22-25, F

@Peppa That’s no excuse to get aggressive, if he felt that way just ignore my reply. I get people replying to old comments all the time and I don’t carry on like a precious idiot

SW-User

@ChloeYoung I agree 💯[c=#BF0000][b][big]%[/big][/b][/c]

ChloeYoung · 22-25, F

@SW-User l had my say and blocked him, obviously he doesn’t have a life

ChloeYoung · 22-25, F

@SW-User Thanks 👍️

SW-User

@ChloeYoung np