I need a perspective on my behavior from people who consider themselves deep.

So one of my classmates is in a life-or-death situation and I can't make myself emotionally involved in it, whatsoever. He was a nice guy but it's like I don't care and he could die any moment. I have donated some money because he doesn't have the best of financial conditions but that was something I did because it was the right thing to do and not something I did out of compassion.

Have you had a similar situation ? Did you realize the cause ? And remedy, if required ?
I kind of know the answer but still want to see what you guys think.

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SW-User

Sometimes that distance is a defence mechanism and you really care more than you realize.

MasterofNone · 26-30, M

@SW-User Logically, it makes sense but I can't seem to believe if what you are saying is true though something like what you are describing has happened in past.

HootyTheNightOwl

@MasterofNone Yes, he's talking sense - I go through the same thing as he describes and not because I don't care... it is because I am too emotionally involved and I am hurting too much.