What do you think women want to see in men?
Humor, humility, ambition, peace, bookishness, style, strong sense of family, pragmatism
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REMsleep · 41-45, F
All females are different blah blah, ok thats outta the way.
They want someone confident in his looks(dosent have to look good just believe in yourself), someone who takes care of business in the workplace, at home, in the bedroom, and someone who has his own life. Someone who is loving and respectful but has a dash of badboy and who won't be pushed over. Has to be hygienic and pays attention to his woman. Should be honest, but honestly ladies will tend to deal with cheaters indefinitely if these other criteria even appear to be met. Many like the thrill of taming badboys. But if you are truly set on being a good guy well thats the basics of the "ideal man".
They want someone confident in his looks(dosent have to look good just believe in yourself), someone who takes care of business in the workplace, at home, in the bedroom, and someone who has his own life. Someone who is loving and respectful but has a dash of badboy and who won't be pushed over. Has to be hygienic and pays attention to his woman. Should be honest, but honestly ladies will tend to deal with cheaters indefinitely if these other criteria even appear to be met. Many like the thrill of taming badboys. But if you are truly set on being a good guy well thats the basics of the "ideal man".
bijouxbroussard · F
@REMsleep [quote]All females are different blah blah, ok thats outta the way.[/quote]
[b]That's[/b] actually a pretty significant point. If all women wanted the same thing they'd all be attracted to the same men.
[b]That's[/b] actually a pretty significant point. If all women wanted the same thing they'd all be attracted to the same men.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@bijouxbroussard Well, I do know that all females are different but, I also believe that at the core of things we can mostly agree on the basics of what the vast majority of women would consider to be redeeming qualities in a male for dating. This is the reason that I left off things such as being a hugger or enjoys fitness, or being funny.
While it is true that many women would appreciate those things, some wont care. I tried to wittle down to baseline good charteristics. What woman honestly prefers a man who does not believe in himself or who does not earn money or who is disrespectful to her? Almost zero. I listed only less subjective broad qualities.
While it is true that many women would appreciate those things, some wont care. I tried to wittle down to baseline good charteristics. What woman honestly prefers a man who does not believe in himself or who does not earn money or who is disrespectful to her? Almost zero. I listed only less subjective broad qualities.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
[b][/b]@bijouxbroussard I feel that I did address this point.
[b]Should be[/b] [b]honest[b][/b][/b], but honestly ladies will [b][/b]tend[b][/b] to deal with cheaters indefinitely if these other criteria even appear to be met. [b][/b][b]Many[b[/b]][/b] like the thrill of taming badboys.
I selected my words carefully. In my humble experience bad boys get more play but I did choose my words in order to acknowledge that quite a few women want a nice guy.
On a side note I have found that many women state that they want a good guy while simultaneously doing everything they can to land or keep the worst ones because of perceived passion, strength, thrill, excitement.
[b]Should be[/b] [b]honest[b][/b][/b], but honestly ladies will [b][/b]tend[b][/b] to deal with cheaters indefinitely if these other criteria even appear to be met. [b][/b][b]Many[b[/b]][/b] like the thrill of taming badboys.
I selected my words carefully. In my humble experience bad boys get more play but I did choose my words in order to acknowledge that quite a few women want a nice guy.
On a side note I have found that many women state that they want a good guy while simultaneously doing everything they can to land or keep the worst ones because of perceived passion, strength, thrill, excitement.